“I am not saying that there is anything better than mated bliss at its best, but I am saying that living alone is as good in its own way. But we have not quite given ourselves the permission to recognize that.” –Barbara Feldon
Humans are so conditioned to having companionship that they find the idea of living in solitude detestable.
The fact is, most individuals find the idea of living alone unimaginable and…depressing. Humans, social creatures that we are, crave for social interaction—even more so at the end of a long day.
However, it is not for the lack of experience that warrants such sentiment, but rather the lack of the will to do so. Being able to live alone is bliss and being at peace with it is even more satisfying. After all, where else could you afford an avenue for peace of mind apart from the comforts of your home? Moreover, you do not have to worry about a companion’s mess or perhaps their share of the rent as the responsibility lies solely in you. Resultantly, living alone would encourage you to mature in more ways than one. And while you might not realize the merits of it today, it helps you develop independence. While living without a companion is a lonely prospect to most, just think of advantages it would offer you. Total liberty and the freedom to do as you please to name a few, but there is quite a myriad more.
As according to the words of Marilyn vos Savant, you should be able to live alone, even if you do not want to and think you will never find it necessary. In this regard, if you have ever found an opportunity to live by yourself and are financially stable enough to do so, go ahead and check out that unit in Avida Towers in San Lorenzo.
Listed below are just some of the advantages of living alone:
1.) You can leave the dishes for as long (or as short) as you wish it
One of the most hated house chores we can all collectively agree on would probably be doing the dishes. Living alone means no one would perpetually nag you to clean them up or ask you to keep them. More often than not, only a visiting parent or a date coming over would prompt you to start loading them in the dishwasher. However, be wary as leaving dirty dishes out for too long can breed bacteria and harmful illnesses.
2.) No one would see your emotional breakdowns
Living with a roommate or other people tends to make us stifle our emotions and keep it in check—even when we are about to burst deep inside. However, living alone allows you to be at home and comfortable with your emotional breakdowns without having anyone to judge you for them. So, if you are having a bad day, you can lash out or cry it all out without fear of being mocked or judged.
3.) Your food is yours alone
You do not have to worry about roommates stealing your food or sharing your home cooked meals with anyone. Your food is solely yours. Furthermore, you can buy food without being judged by your choices. You can eat as much Chinese takeout as you wish without anyone giving you the side eye for your choices.
4.) You can indulge in weird bathroom habits
As you do not have to share the bathroom with anyone else, you can choose to be as weird as you can in there while having your bath or while using the toilet. You do not even need to fear being caught as no one else is with you which means you are afforded maximum privacy. If you so wish, you can even do whatever you wish to do with the door wide open and you still would not run the risk of being walked into.
5.) You can clean at your leisure
As you are not really affecting anyone with your mess and clutter spread around, you are free to clean up whenever you wish. So, if you have had a long day at work and just wish to relax, you can do so. Similarly, if you wish to dedicate your weekends to relaxing and sleeping then you can put off any cleaning chores until you are ready to do them. There is absolutely no pressure on you or anyone nagging you to get a move on and do the laundry already.
6.) You have a lot of personal space and time for self-discovery
Living alone is an avenue for self-discovery—so much so that you will learn so much about yourself during the time you spend on your own. Sure, it can be quite the challenge to adjust at first (especially if you are used to co-dependence or living with companions), but the resultant skills would be all very much worth it. Emotional and personal situations would be a lot easier for you to handle and you will find yourself growing in your independence.