“And good neighbors make a huge difference in the quality of life. I agree.”-Robert Fulghum
Neighbors can either be the bane or boon of your existence.
It all boils down to how you deal and interact with them. Every neighborhood has its fair share of zany and quirky neighbors. Moreover, it also has its fair share of the other kind of neighbors. You know? Those neighbors you do cannot seemingly handle that smiling at each other when you do come across them can seem somewhat forced. Back in the day, almost everyone knew their neighbors or at have at least met them once. However, in this contemporary living setup we have today, it seems like most people would rather keep to themselves considering how perpetually busy their daily routine is. In fact, people would not even be surprised if you have lived in your house for about a decade now and have not had the opportunity to meet your neighbors.
In some cases, this can be a good thing—especially if you are surrounded by oddball and unusual neighbors. However, regardless of what kind of neighbors you have, it is inevitable to have a semblance of a community about you. After all, you are forced to coexist in one neighborhood, so you might as well get along as breezily as you can to ensure optimal residential and neighborhood satisfaction. No matter where you live, how you co-exist with your neighbors can make the difference between a yearly litigious battle and a harmonious coexistence. In any case, whether you live in Avida Asten or elsewhere, it is best to have a thorough understanding of the kind of neighbors you have or might have.
In this regard, you will be able to deal with them better.
1.) The Home Devaluers
While these neighbors are relatively harmless and friendly enough, the same thing cannot be said about how they treat their homes. In fact, they have a specific disregard to how they take care of their homes. Their lawns look like a jungle, and their car is probably left to rusting the front yard. From your perspective, this is more of their problem than yours. Unfortunately, if they live next to or right across you, this can be a significant problem when it comes to the resale of your home. To address this dilemma, communicate with the offending neighbor and get to the root of the cause of their neglect.
2.) The Dangerous Neighbor
Some neighbors are not really worth getting to know at all. However, it would bode you well to be aware what their dislikes and boundaries are so you would never cross them. If you see your neighbor ensuring that his or her lawn is painstakingly spruced up, then you would be wise not to cross that well-manicured lawn. You will never know what might set them off, so it might be best if you just kept to yourself and left them to their own devices.
3.) The Richer than Thou Neighbor
Every neighbor has one. Of course, no one can stop these neighbors from being rich, but the least they could do is stop being so ostentatious and showy about it—at least according to you. It seems to everyone in the neighborhood that they are trying to constantly one-up everyone by buying new things such as the latest cars and latest home improvements just so everyone else can feel inferior. Well, the truth is all you can do is just to cope. Remember, what is sparkly on the outside is not always as glittery on the inside. What you have to keep in mind that every family is dysfunctional to some degree and just because your neighbor is bringing in a new car almost every other month does not mean that trouble is not brewing at home. Chances are, their overindulgence and overspending are both probably trying to compensate for something lacking.